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Step #1: Determine Your Values and Value Priorities

The first step of Networlding is to choose your top four values and then prioritize them? For example, our values are: 1) making a difference,  2) integrity, 3) collaboration, 4) innovation. What are you top values? What drives you each day?

Take about a week or two to figure out your value priorities. Then, a good tip would be to go on LinkedIn and search on the Advanced People Search Page (hint: that link to the far right at the top of your HOME page on LinkedIn). Here, you can search keyword terms  such as “integrity” and “innovation.” You will find like-valued people this way–people who you can partner with to build your respective networks and realize better opportunities faster.

Step #2: Figure Out Who You Already Know Who Could be a Primary Circle Partner

Pick the current people you know–up to five, whom you think would have similar or complementary values. Then, set up times to meet these people. If they are unavailable for the longer term, put them into what we call your “Secondary Circle” where you can connect with them, perhaps, every three months.

Carol had an informal primary circle before she became involved with Networlding. However, when she decided to leave her job to attend graduate school she felt little support from her colleagues or her boss. Additionally, many of those she had in her professional network prior to her transition did not share her values nor did they understand why a successful woman would want to return to school later in life.

Carol decided to develop a new primary circle. To do this, she surrounded herself with friends and colleagues who shared her values. Her new primary circle included personal friends who had also experienced recent career changes and newly made friends who were her grad school peers. Carol was able to find the Networlding Seven Levels of Support (see Step #4) in her personal friends, her peers and her professors. Carol is fortunate enough to see many of these friends daily but she keeps in contact at least weekly with everyone in her primary circle.

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Chicago Cultural Affairs Commissioner, Lois Weisberg, will be retiring this year. It’s interesting that she is leaving just as we are revisiting the human phenomenon that 12 years ago became an international notoriety when Malcolm Gladwell showcased her in his groundbreaking New Yorker article, “6 Degrees of Lois Weisberg.” Our book, Networlding 4.0: The Great Exchange, shares Lois’s powerful talent for connecting AND creating opportunities. In the following excerpt from our book, we reveal more as to how she connects in valuable,mutually beneficial ways and how you can do the same thing, starting today, with your network.

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Lois, as her friends know her, was said by Gladwell to be one of the most influential people on earth because she understood the power of our networked world well before Facebook, Twitter or any other social media platform popularized it. Weisberg, 85, is the only remaining member of May Richard M. Dailey’s original cabinet.

Some of Lois’s contributions to the city included innovative ideas like the famous Cows on Parade public art project in 1999. This idea was spread around the world and duplicated by cities taking on their own unique themes. She also worked with Maggie Daley to create the successful Gallery 37 and After School Matters programs focused on the arts.

For 22 years Lois has been supporting the arts in Chicago. She has done it with a passion focused on a vision of what could be for the city as well as the talented people who would make your visions turn into realities.

As Gladwell illuminated in his article in January of 1999, “There are probably Lois Weisbergs in Akron and Tucson and Paris and in some little town in the Yukon Territory, up by the Arctic Circle. We’ve all met someone like Lois Weisberg. Yet, although we all know a Lois Weisberg type, we don’t know much about the Lois Weisberg type.” From here, Gladwell began to make more “explicit” the infrastructures built from the minds and hearts of people like Lois.

To do this Gladwell, a social scientist, directs our attention to the experiments of Stanley Milgram of the famous Six Degrees Experiment. Gladwell said perhaps it should be referred to as “The Lois Weisberg Problem.” I have been sharing that experiment with audiences for years and, each time, I would note how many were not familiar with it, even after “The Tipping Point” was a bestseller. The experiment began in Omaha, Nebraska, where a hundred and sixty people were randomly selected and given a packet of postcards to mail to a randomly selected stockbrocker in Boston.

When, surprisingly, postcards from the packets were received by the stockbroker within five to six mailings, the “small world concept” or “six degrees of separation” was born. But Gladwell went even deeper into this phenomenon, explaining that an equally important part of the experiment created by Milgram was the realization that the majority of the packets were delivered to the final recipient by the same three people. What this revealed was that there are certain people who are better “connectors” to diverse individuals than others and that illumination was well evidenced in Lois Weisberg.

Gladwell went on in the article to explain that Lois has a powerful pyramid of pyramids of connections. In other words, Lois is connected to “Connectors.” That awareness that started with this article now plays out perfectly on the site LinkedIn.

Here, you can see, right under the heading “Contact” you can click on “Network Statistics.” From here you can see your first degree, second and third degree connection numbers. So, for example, Melissa has 5000 connections. Melissa’s connections are made up of eight years of connecting with top networkers on LinkedIn. Therefore it is not surprising that her second degree connections exceed two million and her third degree, fifteen million. She is connected, like Lois Weisberg, to connectors.

So, bringing this into the real world, how can you build a similar network? Follow this mantra: care, connect, promote. It’s Melissa’s mantra and if you can adapt it to your world you will be on the path to success. You don’t need 5000 connections to get there. Just start with five or ten and keep going. You will get there faster than you realize!

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NetBase – One Cool Company

November 1, 2010

I was looking at articles on the growth of social media data collection sites by Bloomberg Business and came across this company that had won a contest sifting research on why men like stubble on their face (answer: they think it looks good, but I digress). I went on the web to check out the [...]

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Three Tips for Generating New Ideas for Your Business

October 22, 2010

Do you find yourself wondering why you aren’t getting new and better ideas regularly? It all depends on HOW you are going about your search. Following are three different ways you can create new ideas for your business tomorrow. Look on Amazon. Look at the current best sellers in non-fiction. What does the trend in [...]

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What’s Your BHAG – Big Harry Audacious Goal

October 9, 2010

In the book “Built to Last” the authors James Collins and Jerry Porras coin the term big, hairy, audacious goal (BHAG). Do you have one? Have you shared your goal? Are you afraid to do that? If so, why? If not, what is it and who do you need to help you? Here’s my BHAG [...]

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Social Media, Social Networking Recipe for Success

October 6, 2010

What does it take to create a social media/social networking recipe for success? Social media and social networking still start with one simple ingredient–people. But it’s easy to say it all starts with people. To most social media zealots that means LOTS and LOTS and LOTS of people. But would you rather have one Oprah [...]

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Tired of Bad Networking Events? Get Ready for UK Networlding Masterclass

October 3, 2010

Tired of bad networking events where everyone pushes their business cards at you and you end up with the “Over-Stuffed Rolodex?” Here is a great alternative! MA Consulting Presents – The Networlding Masterclass Event “I generated over $100,000 of potential revenue in 90 days” Discover How You Can Use This 7 Step Process To Power [...]

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Publishing

September 10, 2010

I launched Networlding Publishing, Books that Make the World Better, three years ago. To date we have published or helped others publish over 100 books, either business or self help.  I have also authored fourteen books, four that have hit bestseller lists. In this new media world we now live in publishing is one of the major [...]

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Social Media and Socially Popular

September 6, 2010

Check out this website called Socially Popular (great name) for a fresh view of social media and social networking. Eric just added me to his list of 20,000-plus Twitter followers–and he is also following that many by the way. He poses the usual questions that people ask about the ROI of social media such as [...]

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Social Media, Social Networking and Graduating to LinkedIn Excerpt

September 5, 2010

On this Labor Day weekend many think of the end of Summer, the beginning of Fall and, especially, the start of school for many young children and college students. It is therefore fitting to share some insights on the state of work for those who graduated in June and the hopes for work once college [...]

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